tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8956766228449089546.post5207904697551770856..comments2023-07-20T12:06:51.522-04:00Comments on Erika is losing it...: Bully meErikahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09353473552834431483noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8956766228449089546.post-87085514057225308572013-03-11T15:10:10.362-04:002013-03-11T15:10:10.362-04:00Hey There. I found your blog using msn. This is a ...Hey There. I found your blog using msn. This is a really well <br />written article. I will make sure to bookmark it and return to read more <br />of your useful information. 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Well we got through it and we still love each other, but I'm still afraid it could happen again because I'm not thin enough, even though he has never once suggested that I am fat or unattractive. <br /><br />So, even people in happy, stable, long-term relationships get to experience some of the terrible things that you probably thought were reserved for single ladies like yourself. And it all has to do with our culture and our childhood experiences. Oh well...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8956766228449089546.post-31621098558148719962012-10-04T10:20:40.821-04:002012-10-04T10:20:40.821-04:00I know exactly what you are talking about. The thi...I know exactly what you are talking about. The things I tell myself are so mean. SO MEAN. I'm trying to be better about it, but boy is it hard. Meganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15071843644430529274noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8956766228449089546.post-16450549129703044652012-10-04T07:14:01.344-04:002012-10-04T07:14:01.344-04:00A difficult topic to respond to; hits too close to...A difficult topic to respond to; hits too close to home. For years, I, too looked to see if I was the largest in the room and usually I was. Now that I am not, I still feel as if I am. I was never able to stand up for myself either but I know that you and your posts are speaking out and standing up for all of us. <br />Thank you,<br />JenniferAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8956766228449089546.post-86788699538326292812012-10-03T23:14:35.449-04:002012-10-03T23:14:35.449-04:00Oh dear friend you speak my language! I just watc...Oh dear friend you speak my language! I just watched this video and good for her. We both have lived this battle our whole lives and it will continue to be our daily cross to bear. However, we can learn to love ourselves beyond belief. You are all the things you said in your post and SO much more! And not just kind of funny but hilarious! I love you girl! Great post!<br /><br />Kindred spirits!!<br />XOAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8956766228449089546.post-61387581452842150242012-10-03T16:19:50.539-04:002012-10-03T16:19:50.539-04:00In your defense, Erika, you are hard on yourself b...In your defense, Erika, you are hard on yourself because you were raised in a society that taught you to be hard on yourself, in the same way that you speak English because you were raised in a society that speaks English. Those 'languages' we learn in childhood can stick with us in the most stubborn ways! You can't flip a switch and eliminate negative thoughts, any more than you can flip a switch and start speaking Japanese. But you can learn a new language, it just takes time! I am a fellow self-beater-upper and am trying to learn a new language also.<br />SFM in VTnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8956766228449089546.post-9165223660886924002012-10-03T16:06:57.094-04:002012-10-03T16:06:57.094-04:00Erika,
I can totally relate to your post! I watche...Erika,<br />I can totally relate to your post! I watched the video last night when you posted it on FB and I too was in awe of Jennifer and how she said that she was more than a number on a scale. That is definitely not me. I too feel like I define myself by my weight. I had a therapist once tell me to stop all the negative self talk. She said I would never say the things to a friend or loved one that I say to myself. All I can say is you are not alone and I so want to be rid of the internal bullying that goes on daily in my head! - JennieAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com